Especially if it's your sister's shower.
Especially if you get to help throw it.
Especially if your mom & grandma & sisters & precious nephew will be there.
Especially if it's at a GORGEOUS vineyard in Charlottesville.
Especially if the food is to die for.
Especially if you get to see your little sister looking THIS happy:
"It's way, way better to be girl," I whispered to Maggie as we sat in the grape-scented sunshine, taking one last photograph of the day, of four generations of women. She put the hem of her dress in her mouth and smiled at me.
I think that means she agrees.